Cancer is the astrology sign that is packed full of contradictions so when it comes to independence, they possibly can or can not be independent. On one side, they have the perseverance and drive to do what needs to be done, they are self-sufficient and do not need to depend on other people for the material and physical things in life. On the other hand, they depend on people for emotional support and encouragement.
A Cancer that is not fully self-actualized will need the constant support of others and will not be very independent but the Cancer that is ‘evolved’ and has properly harnessed their emotional issues will be wildly successful as an independent human being. They crave attention and comfort from other people and they are happiest when they have a small, close knit group of friends or family.
Cancer and Friendship:
Cancer is extremely loyal to those who appreciate and support them, they are the nurturer of the zodiac and will protect and cherish the person for a long time. One of the greatest things about Cancer is their ability to make others feel good about themselves and loved. This is because instead of doing this for themselves, they project this onto other people. This is a positive cycle because in making others feel nurtured, wanted and loved, they in return feel good for making someone feel good.
Other people can lean on and depend on cancer, they will listen to people’s problems and help them however they will rarely express their own deep feelings to anyone. People who want to share deep emotional thoughts and opinions with a Cancer might feel that the scales are tipped on one side for cancer will rarely reveal it’s true deep feelings. A friend of Cancer is usually a lifelong devoted friend that can be trusted.
As parents – Cancer representatives seem to find their life’s goal. It is often unclear to them why every horoscope they read speaks of their attachment to family values, but this gets a lot clearer once they have children of their own. The main lesson parenting will bring to these individuals is a reality check on who truly is helpless and needs them to be caring and nurturing. Unfortunately, this often shines a light on those who could do well on their own too, and with a child entering their life, many of their unbalanced friendships will come to an end.
They will give all the love they have to their children, put their hopes and dreams in them, and water them to grow in whichever direction they want to. The biggest problem appears when a Cancer parent is unsatisfied with their own life, for they become demanding, dependent on their child, and turn to emotional blackmail just to get the love they need. When in the scope of respecting their children’s boundaries, they will be loving and kind, finding their purpose in shaping someone’s way of using resources of life and supporting their children in building a strong but tender personality.
As children – Cancer children will need a lot of attention and care, but at the same time need just as much freedom to build their own way of thinking. With Jupiter exalted in their sign, these kids have an incredible desire to learn, but under their own terms and only about things that spark their hearts and nurture their souls. They shouldn’t be pushed to work or learn about things they are not interested in, for they need a strong focus and a career build on a good foundation and in a direction their heart chooses.
CANCER FRIENDS AND FAMILY
People born under the sign of Cancer are great parents. They care about family and home and value home comforts than anything else. They are deeply sentimental and prone to diligently preserving family memories intact. Cancer loves sharing his life experiences with his family.
When it comes to friendship, Cancerians are always willing to lend a hand of friendship, of course, if it does not interfere with family responsibilities.They respect their friends a lot. People who enjoy socializing in the home will be on the top of their list of friends. Their intuitive nature makes them very compassionate, but sometimes it’s impossible to understand them.
CANCER CAREER AND MONEY
Cancer can be very persistent and sensitive. When a job needs to be done, they will roll their sleeves up and finish the job successfully. When left alone to work, they perform better and there is absolutely no need to monitor their work.
They will have great careers as nurses, housekeepers, gardeners, politicians and journalists.
For Cancerians, security and money are of great importance, when it comes to work. They can earn money very easily, but they can also spend it very quickly. Cancer is not a big spender of money, in fact, is far more inclined to invest and watching it grow from day to day. Cancer is very resourceful and he is good at managing his time and money.
HOW TO ATTRACT THE CANCER WOMAN
Cancer personality can be quite complicated, but deep inside they are home-loving and conservative people. Cancer woman are very vulnerable and emotional and not likely to quickly fall in love. However, once you earn her trust, the Cancer woman will be passionate and loyal partner. If you want to seduce her, you will need to be the one to make the first move.
Despite her cautious nature, she is very erotic and enjoys expressing her feelings in a sexual manner. So, if you have the patience to win her heart, you will be very well rewarded.
The woman born under the Cancer zodiac sign is probably not the right choice for a man who wants to have only a sex partner for a one-night stand. However, if you are a romantic man and you believe in true love, then you should definitely focus your attention on a Cancer woman. If you want to seduce her, you will need to be romantic and in tune with what she’s thinking and feeling even if she does not tell you.
To keep the Cancer woman in your life, you must be faithful, respectful and honest. The woman born under the Cancer star sign will never forget a betrayal.